Navigating University Life: Tips for Getting Along with Your Flatmates

Starting university is an exciting chapter in your life, and one of the first big decisions you’ll make is choosing where to live. Many of our students choose to live in our on-site accommodation or flat share in the city centre. 

Living with flatmates, whether you know them prior to moving in or not, can be tricky to navigate at times. But building positive relationships can make your university experience all the more enjoyable. 

So, here are some tips to help you get along with your flatmates:

Open Communication is Key

The foundation of any successful relationship is communication. Establish open and honest communication from the start. Share your expectations, preferences, and boundaries, and encourage your flatmates to do the same. It’s much easier to address issues when you can talk openly about them.

Set Ground Rules

Create a set of ground rules or guidelines for living together. Discuss things like quiet hours, cleaning schedules, and shared responsibilities. Having these rules in place can prevent conflicts and ensure everyone’s needs are considered.

Respect Personal Space

While it’s essential to build a sense of community, it’s equally important to respect each other’s personal space. Ensure you and your flatmates have some private time and personal areas they can relax in without disruption.

Share Responsibilities

Assign specific responsibilities for household chores such as cleaning, taking out rubbish, or food shopping. Rotating these tasks ensures that no one feels burdened and keeps the living space clean and harmonious.

Be Tolerant and Flexible

Remember that your flatmates may have different backgrounds, habits, and lifestyles. Be tolerant and willing to compromise. Flexibility is key to resolving conflicts and maintaining a peaceful living environment.

Conflict Resolution

Conflicts are a part of communal living. When disagreements arise, address them calmly and respectfully. Focus on the issue at hand, not the person. Active listening and empathy go a long way in finding common ground and resolving disputes.

Create Shared Experiences

Building positive relationships with your flatmates can be as simple as spending time together. Organise movie nights, cook dinners together, or participate in university events as a group. Shared experiences help you bond and create lasting memories.

Talk to your RSA

If you are living on campus remember to speak to your Resident Student Assistant (RSA). They will help create a positive learning and living environment and because they are current students, will fully understand any concerns you may have.

Security and Safety

Safety should always be a priority. Lock doors and windows when you leave, and don’t lend keys to anyone that doesn’t live in your flat or house. Promoting a secure environment helps build trust.

Remember that building strong relationships with your flatmates takes time. Be patient and give yourselves the opportunity to adapt to each other’s lifestyles and habits. University life is a unique experience, and your flatmates can become some of your closest friends. By following these tips and fostering a sense of community, you’ll be well on your way to creating a positive and harmonious living environment during your first year at university.

Find out more about accommodation at Marjon here.

Post authored by:
Richeldis Cain
Social Media Manager
Plymouth Marjon University